Saturday, December 30, 2006

Christmas/Solstice/Hanukkah/Festivus--it's all good!

Okay, so this is about a month late but it's high time I blogged again.  We had a great holiday season.   Here's the pre-Christmas stuff...

Wassail, Wassail All Over the Town (or the Unitarian Church in Towson, at any rate)
First, Amy and Tom invited us to carpool with them to a Wassail Celebration. Based on what little I know of old British/English traditions, it was a fairly authentic descendant of the old celebrations. There was a welcome from a rather pagan-looking man in robe and beard, poetry, a highly humorous extended "St. George and the Dragon" skit with delightful costumes (the large bearded man portraying the lovely princess was a delight, as was the doctor with a CD strapped to his head as part of his costume) and contemporary political references. And of course lots of music, mostly participatory singing of the lesser-known Christmas carols such as The Holly and the Ivy and Bring a Torch, Jeannette, Isabella (my choice). We also recited many blessings for the apple harvest. Being the granddaughter/niece of apple farmers I happily took up the duty of holding an apple-tree branch to be a tree. Definite pagan influences there. Oh, and the food--everything from Tom's pumpkin bread to any type of cookie you could want to hot spiced cider. Then more music starting with including Tom and Amy performing seasonal songs old and new, recorder players, guitar, and a juggler (who played pennywhiste while standing on a giant ball!)

Anniversary Trip
The following (or was it the preceding?) Sunday Ken and I went on my library's Staff Association bus trip to New York City. This was the third anniversary of our first official date, and we celebrated by going back to all the places we'd been together then. We started at Kinokuniya Books,  
an international Japanese bookstore with all kinds of manga (hey, I was in heaven) and other books in both Japanese and English.  They also have an incredible stationery section on the second floor. We picked up some little Christmas treats (a scented pencil for niece Rachael, and sparkly colored pens for niece and nephew Sheila and Brian.)
Next we had lunch at what I'm sure was the same Japanese restaurant we'd been to three years ago. The sushi and miso soup were certainly just as good!  Then, up to the Frick Gallery to admire the portraits. We walked down along Central Park, and just when we were getting tired we came across St. Thomas' Episcopal Church, which has renowned boys' and mens' choirs--and we were only 10 minutes late for sung evening prayer!  So, we heard some beautiful music and a good sermon, as well as an Advent reading or two.
Of course we checked out several stores' holiday windows (one store had an incredible array of snowflake designs all over their multistory storefront, which lit up in different patterns to the tune of "Carol of the Bells." Amazing!) And of course there was Rockefeller Center and the Christmas Tree.

Guests and Hosts
The week before Christmas we went up to New Jersey for Bev and Joe's legendary Christmas party--excellent food, a wonderfully decorated house (Bev and Joe are commercial designers-- they  invented those gorgeous ribbons with wires in them that you can bend into all sorts of creative bows and shapes), delightful hosts,  a chance to chat with many of Ken's relatives. And then two of the later highlights:
1. A visit from Santa. The kids were going crazy with anticipation, and sang "Santa Claus is Coming to Town" (with the oldest "kid" Evan accompanying on the piano) till he showed up with candy canes and little gifts.  
2. Then came the carol singing, with Joe playing old and new favorites. This is of course one of my favorite parts (that and the shrimp-cocktail tree appetizer...)
The next day we slept late at Ken's aunt Bonnie and uncle Ed's house, visited with them, and Ken napped while I helped Bonnie finish trim the tree.  And then we had the adventure of...
Driving into Philadelphia!  (Yay) It was worth it because we met our friend Stasa at her friend Laura's house, made a good dinner out of Solstice-potluck leftovers (Nif made an excellent carrot/sprouts/whatever was in the fridge salad), and chatted with fellow statistical-outlier types on many topics including fanfiction (yes, there were people there besides me who knew what it was, though I did have to define 'shonen ai').  
We were delighted to be hosts ourselves that night to Stasa, and Ivan was just as pleased to have her visit (amazing as he's quite shy with strangers. ) In fact, the next morning when she was in the shower, he was waiting outside the bathroom staring at the door. I figured he was waiting for his breakfast (his bowl is in the bathroom) but no, when Stasa got out I put the food in and he ignored it. This is unheard of--our boy is always begging eagerly for food every morning and eats like we've been starving him for days instead of for 12 hours. So I looked around--and he was gazing at Stasa as she pulled on her sweater. I think my position as Ivan's Mistress would have been in danger if she'd stayed much longer!

Next up, a pictorial Christmas tour!

There's hope for us!

It's a slow morning at work so I'm catching up on professional reading and came across a nonfiction book review in Library Journal that just warmed my heart:

A Perfect Mess by Eric Abrahamson and David H. Freedman
The basic thesis of the book is that "messy systems are actually much more cost effective and productive than highly organized ones." They use case studies so it must be right. Messiness, according to these wonderful authors, leads to heightened creativity, new discoveries, adaptability to change, and other good things.

Are we happy or what? Now I have another excuse to not straighten up the apartment!

Oh, and I'm using the new Blogger with fun new things like font colors!

Next up: My holiday celebrations (with pictures)

Sunday, December 03, 2006

An Ivan Update


Stasa posted that it's about time I posted updated info and photos of Ivan, and since she's practically the only person who posts to this blog (hint, hint) I'm going to do it right now.

First, an Ivan story. This happened...a while ago, but I've been procrastinating.
Ivan's favorite toys are fur mousies, which can be purchased two for $1.99 at the grocery store. We periodically get him new ones because first he rapidly destroys White Mousie (something about the taste of the white fur, we think, because he starts off by licking it) and then plays with Black Mousie and eventually tears it into pieces as well.

So, Ken bought Ivan new fur mousies, but since the old black mousie was still in good shape, he put the new set behind the coffeemaker on the kitchen counter, where Ivan knows he is not allowed to go. He gets yelled at loudly whenever he does (he hates sudden loud noises worse than anything).

So anyway, the next morning I got up to find those mousies on the kitchen floor, and Ivan playing with them, still attached to the cardboard they came on. I snatched up the mousies and headed for the bedroom to hide them. Ivan of course quickly followed behind, and got into the bedroom before I could shut the door. So, I shut him in the bedroom, went quietly into the bathroom, and hid them in the back of the bottom drawer of the sink-vanity.


I went out to do some laundry and stuff, came back, and there were those darn mousies on the floor again! I can only assume Ivan smelled where they were and got them out. At that point, I said to him, "You really are MensaCat, aren't you?" I decided any cat that clever deserved the new mousies to play with, so I cut them off the cardboard and gave them to him.

Now Ivan regularly paws open the drawers of the sink-vanity, presumably on the theory that if mousies were in there once, mousies will be in there again.

Ivan is particularly attached to me--as Ken puts it, I am "his person." I call him various names, "Little Prince," "Mr. Paws and Claws," and the abovementioned "MensaCat" among others. I also call him by some of the same names I call Ken, most notably "Angel." (Pause while Ken's relatives laugh themselves silly over anyone calling Ken an angel.)

You see, I am Ken's wife and Ivan's mistress. If you want to get an idea of how Ivan feels about me, read The Rabbi's Cat by Joann Sfar. He's the cat and I'm Zlabya. Go ahead, get the book out of the library, even if you don't usually read graphic novels. (Just be warned that the rabbi's cat uses words you can't say on the radio.)

Anyway, Ivan feels it is his duty to adore me and to receive all my attention. Especially when I am on the computer. He hops up on the desk next to me, walks over--he's doing it now--onto my lap, and stays there. He often settles in and rests his head on my left wrist, which makes typing impossible. Now he's just tried to sit on my right wrist, to stop me from typing.

He likes to nuzzle on the books I'm reading too, especially manga. This usually does not interrupt my reading much, but last night he was simply determined to get between me and our copy of Lois McMaster Bujold's new book (she's our favorite author). I think the better the book, the more he gets jealous.

OK, now he's curled up on my lap and I'm signing off...Yeah, he's pushing the keyboard drawer in, further and further from my hands...That's it, everyone....

Today is my dad's birthday!!

Happy 72nd Birthday, Dad!!

In celebration, here is one of Dad's many accomplishments, a train layout by him and his fellow train-club members...




Here's another one, perhaps his greatest work, known as "us":






Master Mechanic, Railfan, Grillmeister, Fire-builder, Breakfast Chef. My Dad.

I love you!!!!!

Friday, December 01, 2006

My terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad (well, not entirely) day

Yesterday (Thursday), sigh:

(1)I fell asleep after Ken left, woke up at 9:20, and sat at the computer eating my cereal-no-milk breakfast and reading my email as usual, till I realized I had to get my health insurance form into interoffice mail today. So, I quickly filled out the form, called Ken to get relevant info on his insurance, washed and dressed real fast, dropped off the form into interoffice mail at work.

(2)At that point it was 10 am and I realized I would be waaay too late for my dental appointment, scheduled for, yes, 10 am. So I pulled out my trusty cell phone, and rescheduled.

(3) This part went fine but was simply nonstop: I shopped for foodstuff for the library's anime club meeting that afternoon and for our kids' craft program next Tuesday, got to chiropractor just on time, had just enough lunchtime to eat very dietary-restriction-inappropriate pizza, shopped with a coworker for craft materials for abovementioned crafts, got to work, and checked my email and the stuff that landed on my desk that morning.

(4) Now it gets fun again. For about the fourth month in a row, I screwed up on trying to get the laptop and projector for the anime club meeting to talk to each called Ken who was working at home and came to help...

(5)and now it gets really bad. We didn't have the right cable, so we went to the break room and I pulled out the tall cart holding our DVD/VHS player and large TV in the break room so we could get out the DVD/VHS player and try that. The friggin' TV (huge, at least a 27 in. screen) fell off the cart and broke. Irreparable. If Ken weren't there I might have just run home and hidden under the covers and cried. But I had to go out there and host the club meeting and then have lunch and work on the desk till 9pm. Oh, and continue training my new page.

There is more...

(6)Ken did manage to get the DVD player to talk to the projector and left. Then I burned the popcorn for the club meeting, setting off the fire alarm. Yes we had to evacuate, yes, the firetruck came, and yes, one of the anime freaks fell and hurt her knee, resulting in her limping around with a badly scraped knee and me getting her antibiotic ointment and gauze pads and tape from the first-aid kit.

That was the end of the disasters, thank you God. We talked about club stuff, watched 2 good anime episodes (Negima and Moon Phase, in case you're interested), and all was well the rest of the evening, including the page training and cutting out and packaging tons of craft materials for Tuesday.

Public librarianship is a fascinating career. Much more, umm, adventurous than you thought, eh?